All tragedy of life, all misery and inharmony are caused by one thing and that is lack of understanding. Lack of understanding comes from lack of penetration. The one who does not see from the point of view from which he ought to see becomes disappointed because he cannot understand.
It is not for the outer world to help us to understand life better; it is we ourselves who should help ourselves to understand it better.
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